I wasn't sure if this should go in etiquette or
here. FI and I have had several people ask us if they're invited to our wedding
(a few in person/email and one quite publicly on social media). As I’m sure you
can guess where this is going…these people are not invited. If we were having a
big 200 or 300 person wedding then perhaps these people would be invited, but
we are having a small 75-100 person wedding (100 is our venue max) and
therefore are not able to invite these people (and many others!).
How do we answer these questions without
hurting feelings or being rude? FI already answered one email that was just
asking about if the kids were invited (they’re not – he let them know we’re
having adults only). But what about the others saying things like “can I come?”
and “I better get an invite!”?