My fiance and I both have friends who really like to party. Particularly for my fiance's friends, this includes going way past hours when I'm typically in bed.
Our wedding venue gives you six hours for your ceremony and reception. We're going to have the ceremony at 4, cocktail hour probably around 4:30-5:30, and then the reception until 10. It'll be an open bar that whole time.
Renting any further hours costs $1200 per hour. However, the venue suggested that we rent out the adjoining bar instead (it's part of the hotel), which only costs $600 for three hours.
So, our current plan is to have a full reception with an open bar until 10 pm, and then my fiance and I are going to go to the hotel bar from 10 pm to 1 am, which will be rented out just for us. Anyone who wants to join us will be welcome. But it'll be a pay-for-your-own-drinks situation.
Is that okay, etiquette-wise? I figured we'd have a fully hosted reception and then the 10 pm to 1 am bar situation is less of us hosting everyone and more of like -- hey, if you wanna come party more, we'll be at this place for the next three hours.
Thoughts? Okay/not okay?