My best friend is pregnant with her first child and her baby will be a few months old at the time of my wedding. She is my first friend to have a baby and I don't have any nieces or nephews, so I basically have no experience with newborns and how moms feel about things.
I haven't officially asked her to be in my wedding yet, but it is kinda implied that she would be part of the day. I would love her to be part of my wedding, but I also don't want to do anything to pull her away from her baby. Of course I would be happy for her to to bring the baby with her while we are getting ready in the morning (more time to spend with my new "niece/nephew"!) and would only ask that her husband looks after the little one during the ceremony.
I'm not planning on having a shower or bachelorette party and have absolutely no expectation of her or my other two BM's to do anything but show up that day in the dresses we all agree upon.
I guess I'm curious to hear from other moms if you would have wanted to be included in the bridal or to attend as a guest with your husband and baby and be able to come and go as you pleased. This will be their first time travelling with the baby and I want them to be able to relax and have a fun weekend.
Maybe I'm just way overthinking everything...any insights would be appreciated