Dear Prudence,
My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for six years. Our sex life for the first three years was incredible, but at that time we were both active addicts. We have both since recovered and become productive members of society. But this last three years our sex life has become nonexistent. I still want what we had and he doesn’t even have the desire to even kiss me. Is this a sign that we were only good with each other when we were using or is there something I’m missing?