Happy Holidays, if that's your thing. It is a thing for me, and all of the family visits this time of year have revealed an issue I'm not sure how to handle. Namely, other people making suggestions as to who should be in the wedding party.
This is is the first time we've been back to see family since the engagement so I was expecting the "have you set a date?" and "where do you think you'll have it?" questions, but I wasn't prepared for "you should make so-and-so a bridesmaid" and "so-and-so would make an adorable flower girl". So far I've been deflecting with a lot of "we haven't thought about that yet" sort of replies.
I don't want my non-answers to give anyone false hope about being in the wedding. What's the best way to respond to these comments without offending anyone?