So I'm in a knot. I want my sister to be in my wedding as my MOH, and I've already asked her to be. She said yes!
She is kind of going through a lot to put it nicely. I've told her multiple times about being my MOH and it's an honored position, she's just telling me she doesn't care. Etc. There was an incident where she backed into my car and she had to pay for the damage. She told me that if she had to pay for the damage that she didn't want to be involved in my wedding at all. That was summer 2016 and she's over that now, but occasionally throws it in my face. She told me last week to find someone else because she is not sure she will get along with me by that time to even be in it. She's using this to as leverage. I already chose my bridesmaids.
I think I would really regret choosing someone else, and I think later in life when she grows up (she's already 20yr) she will regret her decision too. We've had a rocky relationship but we're still sisters. In all honesty I wish I would have decided on someone else to not deal with this, but I didn't want bridesmaids at all when I first started planning.
Talk about a headache! Any input is appreciated.