I am having a destination wedding with only immediate family - first cousins, aunt/uncles, grandparents. Only 1 set of friends is invited and its because they are in the wedding. I still want to celebrate with my friends and large family at home and people are excited about planning a nice wedding brunch/shower. I am registered for gifts, but absolutely do not expect people to purchase gifts if they are not immediate family.
What is the best way to have a bridal shower to celebrate with friends/family and make it clear that a gift is not necessary since we are having a small destination wedding? I have heard you can send invitations without any mention of a registry, and only provide registry information if they ask.
Are there any other ways to do this?