Alright so to my dismay. My FI wants to have his Father walk my Mother down the aisle before the bridesmaids etc. Here is why my stepdad is walking me down with my son. My father has passed so has his mother. So instead of my mother coming down the aisle before us all by herself he wanted his dad as an escort. Something about the joining of the families etc.
My problem is my mother cannot stand my FFIL, lets be honest i have my own issues with him as well. (long story separate conversation) I have yet to tell my mother or ask her if this will be an issue. He has already asked and told his dad that is what he wants. But what are the rules for etiquette on this? Is it ok? Odd? Just do not do it? I get the reasoning why he wants to do this, and I admit while it is sweet it makes me uncomfortable. Because of my issues with my FFIl I just would rather nix that whole thing and move on.
What is everyone's thoughts on this?