A family friend of my fiancé was excited we are getting married. However, she mentioned to him to put her down for 11 people! Her husband, kids, her brother his wife, their parents. How do I word the RSVPs so others like her can only bring 2 or whatever number we alllow? I know we address on the envelope exactly who it is for but some people will still assume their whole family. Would something along the lines of this be too rude? "We have reserved ____ seats for your name" thank you!!