I have been really confused lately by my Matron of Honor. I should first mention that I have a Maid and Matron of Honor and with my Matron she is a close friend who has been like a sister to me. When I first got engaged she was over the moon excited for me and wanted to plan right away, had Pinterest boards etc. But over the holidays I had gently mentioned that I want to focus on my wedding planning after the holidays ...because I just wanted to enjoy the holiday season and some time off before hitting "wedding planning" mode. Well since then she's been completely opposite and hasn't even checked in with me asking how it's going! I know she has been busy and has been dealing with some health issues which I have been supportive of but I just feel bummed she's completely gone MIA. I feel like if I mention anything she will get offended and so I'm just not sure what to do. It's really kind of strange! I want to include her in more like dress shopping but I also feel she needs to show her enthusiasm more. Maybe I just needed to vent but has anyone else dealt with this? Even one of my bridesmaids reached out to her and nothing back. I don't need her to even help with much but I guess I was hoping for a certain amount of excitement like my Maid of Honor and honorary bridesmaid have shown. Oh well.