Hi ladies! I am recently married to a wonderful man 25 years my senior ( I am 27). We really gave our relationship a thought and prayer and felt as though we couldn't live without each other. We communicate well, both want a family, and just overall have been able to overcome a lot of obstacles just being together for 17 months.
Our wedding date went without a hitch and we were surrounded with family and close friends. I recently posted my excitement of changing my last name on Facebook and I had a family member comment the following:
"The problems come later. Good luck. God bless you."
I proceeded to reply back and say the following:
"Thank you for the positive thoughts Aunt Jane Dow (named changed for anonymity)."
She proceeded to message me privately to say the following: "I tell you from experience. It brings a lot of issues. I counsel your good. I am very honest. Blessings and good luck. I hope you don't put your bank account under both of your names. He has experience and you don't."
I proceeded to reply back that I appreciated her concern and that although I respect her experience, I cannot live my life in fear and that as the head of our home, I must trust my husband and we make our decisions together. We trust each other and I know his past a lot deeper than most his own family know... now this is all paraphrased. Again, I thanked her and finished the post with a I love you. She replied back by saying, "I hope that's the case..." ... do you think I handled this properly? Sorry for the long post.