Moms and Maids
So I have a bridesmaid who I was even hesitant to ask but we have been friends for 10 years and I felt bad not asking her. She was very excited when I asked and was even coming up with ideas to plan my Bachelorette and bridal shower. I guess she didn't realize she wasn't the MOH and when she found out she immediately stopped being supportive about the wedding and instead makes jabs at everything I'm doing. From complaining about the jewelry I was going to buy for them, to the dress, timing of the wedding and reception, and more. Since I asked them to pay for their dresses I was not going to require anyone to have their hair or makeup professionally done, this made her mad because "doing your own hair and makeup is no fun". Then I was considering getting a bus or limo for the bridal party to have a little fun in before the reception but I was concerned because I didn't want everyone to be drunk and obnoxious before the reception. She said "well I guess people I hang out with usually start drinking in the morning of their wedding". Nothing I do makes her happy and she pretty much always has a snarky comment. Am I being overly sensitive? How should I handle this before I become a bridezilla and say something I will regret?