I've posted a few times, mostly about how frustrated I was with the groom's involvement in wedding planning. Our wedding was AMAZING! I have no words about how proud I am to be his wife. I now know what the initial problem was, HIS FAMILY! He was anxious and afraid of his family being involved in our ceremony. They caused problems from day 1. If I had the choice, I wouldn't send them thank you cards. I'm not thankful for anything they did, I'd rather they didn't even come. However, they attended, some gave cards, and proper etiquette dictates they receive our thank yous. I need opinions on what wording would be appropriate? Would it be rude to simply state, "Thank you for attending our wedding. We appreciate your cards and blessings. The Smiths"? What wording would you suggest?