Ok, so my father and I are on again off again in closeness. Whenever he wants to be basically. He's very temperamental and just an angry person. Easily offended. He and his gf have been on again off again and engaged and broken up yada yada. My church only has 6 seats to a row. So I want to seat the gf in the second row so that my parents, step dad, and grandmas can sit in front row. I don't feel that the gf should replace one of my grandma's places. Any advice?