So my bridal shower is in less than 2 weeks! YAY!! But now I'm totally aggravated over my FH's side of the family that never RSVP'd! I asked my FMIL to contact those on her side of the family to see if they were coming or not and low and behold she has dropped the ball on that. In the 11th hour before the numbers were due to my mom/sister who are throwing me the shower, she tells me she can't get a hold of people. So I marked them as no's. Honestly, it is of no loss to me, as they were more invites to make others happy, but since they were so rude and basically have ignored the paper invitation, and the follow up phone calls, do I even have to bother with inviting them to the wedding? This is the last thing I want to be going through 3 weeks before the big day and to be honest, these guests barely have any contact with myself and FH. I'd rather send the invitation to someone who we know and would be delighted to share in our wedding festivities.