How can I word the hotel card properly without making people think we’re paying? Situation: want wedding next summer in CA. We live in NY. Family is from NY, MI & CA so the NY & MI people probably will need hotels. I am trying to find a hotel near the place we’re thinking of getting married @. I want to get a block there. I was telling my fiancé this and he said if we get a hotel block his dad's family will think that means we are paying. WE ARE NOT PAYING. How can I word this card so they are 100% sure we’re not paying? I also thought about just not sending those people the card but my fiancé says they would be pissed if there was discounted rate and they weren’t told about it. (Addendum: they are not from America. They live here now but they are not from here. I do not know if this is a cultural thing or what but I know this is not the first wedding they’re attending in America).