so i sent these diy cards to "propose" to my bridesmaids and also to my mom to walk me down the aisle. My mom called me right away when she opened it(last Monday). I asked 5 ladies to be bridesmaids and I have yet to hear back from 1. I also enclosed a personalized, hand-written letter to each lady. Just saying how much their friendship means to me, reminiscing funny stories, etc. The 1 that didn't respond, I haven't heard a word. She's an upfront, straight-forward, says what's on her mind kind of chick. She lives 2.5 hours away from me, so it's not like I can I ask her to grab dinner and ask her about it. It is a destination wedding, so I know many guests won't come bc of not being able to afford it. But, she's been upfront with me in the past when I invited her to things and she couldn't afford it. I'm just disappointed and sad that I haven't heard anything and it will be a week tomorrow. Also, I know I sent it to the right address, bc I asked each lady individually for their address like 2 months ago.