So hopefully this is the proper board to post this question or more so looking for some advice.
So my mom's side of the family for lack of better words has always been pretty dramatic. Starting issues and fights here and there. But we have always been very close to them as well. Within the past year I was dragged into some of the drama they like to start. But I am a very easy going person, So I am able to let things go very easily and had since let everything go. But certain people of my family have not or cant. Now we are getting to the invites of the wedding and I would like to just invite everyone. I will say I have not spoken to my Aunt for about a year. But I feel with a wedding it is a big deal and I would at least like to invite everyone. But my mom is unsure about it and my Sister in Law is not on good terms with another aunt. So my thinks it will all be an issue if everyone is there. A part of me believes they can act civil at a wedding but you never know. I do think it is crazy that I should have to worry about adults not acting civil or mature at a wedding and I think I should be able to invite everyone. My Fiance agrees with me as well.
I would rather just invite everyone and just hope for the best. I do believe my Sister in Law will be fine if I talk to her but I don't want to also hurt feelings. It is a weird situation. So I am looking for advice. Should I just go with my gut and invite everyone? So I contact the people I haven't talked to in a while and make things okay or just send an invite and assume that says we are fine? and just see if they come.
Sorry if a little long or confusing. Explaining this is text is a little hard