Bridemaid/Sister in Law out of state
So one of my bridesmaid is my future sister in law who lives half way across the country in another state. I've only met her in person a handful of times since she lives so far away but it was important to my fiancé and his family that she be in our wedding which is totally fine with me. I look forward to getting to know her better as the years go on.
Anyway, my question is...what all should I invite her too? (showers, engagement party, bachelorette party, etc.)
I don't want her to feel left out or not as important as the other maids but I don't want her to feel obligated to come to anything either.
My rough bachelorette party idea is a weekend at my parents lake condo that is walking distance of a popular/fun bar. I'm trying to keep it as low-cost as possible.
Anyway I don't want her to feel like she has to fly in for anything but I don't want to not extend an invite either.