My sister is throwing me a shower in about two weeks. My great aunt offered to help mostly by footing a good portion of the bill. My aunt doesn't have any children of her own and has done quite well for herself, we have gotten closer in the last eight years or so but she still isn't much for family so I'm not very confident on a lot of her interests. Because she is helping to pay for the shower, it is going to be a very fancy affair. It's at a local 5 star hotel and pretty swanky from what little I know about it.
I feel like because they are spending so much, I should be getting them nice hostess gifts but I have no concept of how much to spend on a hostess gift. Do I need to be sure I spend more because they are spending more? I'm not even sure what more is.... I knew you guys could help.