My fiance and I have been engaged a year - we were supposed to get married next month but postponed the wedding in May for a number of reasons. I asked months ago if we would/should celebrate our engagement anniversary and he said he didnt see why we wouldn't/shouldn't.
We have been dealing with the Hurricanes of the summer and because of this it prevented us from doing something together to 'celebrate' on our day. He still remembered our day and articulated a happy anniversary. But I had gotten him a gift well in advance. He claims we were going to do something but aside from grabbing dinner and a drink out I don't believe anything was planned. I feel disappointed and sad that he didn't even try to grab a card. I know that it probably sounds very immature and selfish. But we didn't do an anniversary on when we felt we first got together and I feel let down after postponing our wedding day. I made it a point to ask him if we should acknowledge it (I have never been in a position where someone wanted to acknowledge an anniversary with me so I already felt insecure him). When I told him how I felt, in the nicest way possible, he said I just made him feel horrible and the gift made him feel bad...even thought he is using it all the time.
I don't know if I should feel sad or disappointed by this...or even angry...and I dont know what t do!