I know this isn't "Wedding Woes" related, but I've been active on this board the most lately. Sorry in advance. Also, please don't quote me in case I chicken out and want to delete this.
So, my husband runs his own office. His secretary of maybe 6 months or so is 21, a fairly attractive female, who's really outgoing. They are in the fire department together too. It seems like lately they have been spending more time together, now with her aunt as well (who is only 30). When I say time together, they left work a little early the other day to grab a drink before he came home. He often takes her to lunch or to run errands during the day. He also bought her a suit last week, she apparently doesn't have many professional clothes, having only worked retail previously.
Yesterday we didn't have work. He went to the office around 5 to get some stuff done. I stayed home with our toddler. He said he didn't think he'd be long. I facetimed him with our son around 7:30 to say goodnight. He got home around 9ish. He mentioned that the guy working on his computers invited the secretary and her aunt to the office so they were hanging out for a little bit.
This is all really off-putting to me. I think it's her personality. She is very flirty with every guy I've ever seen her encounter. My husband mentions what she is saying to this firefighter or that one, etc. Last night I told my husband that it seems like he is having an affair with this girl or something. He said that is definitely not that case, and I have no reason not to believe him, but I have a sinking feeling that I can't shake. Am I crazy? What would you do?