So I posted another thread about being invited to a local bridal luncheon (for an OOT wedding) with a multitude of weirdness (including a link to the wedding website on an insert so that we could find the registry information).
So the wedding is out of town in early February. I never received a save the date and I have not received an invitation (but it's a hair more than 8 weeks out so I wasn't concerned).
Today I noticed there is an RSVP portion on the wedding website.
I typed my name in for kicks. Both my husband and I are listed. So are some other married couples we're friends with. I checked another friend and she's on here but her fiancé is not.
Then I noticed the RSVP section said to please RSVP by December 20.
So... to sum up:
I have not received an invitation to a wedding that's two months away that I am supposedly supposed to RSVP to in two weeks' time.
I've been invited to a pre-wedding event but not a traditionally gift-giving one. I got the invite on Friday.
I think it's also very possible the insert with the wedding website in the bridal luncheon invite was put there by the hostess without clearance by the bride.
Other factor: Judging by the website this is a fancy-pants wedding. They wouldn't just not send paper invitations.
So my friends and I are debating whether we should buy plane tickets yet. Does this sound like a B-list cluster or am I just reading too much into things?