FI two brothers who are in the wedding STILL have not gone to get fitted for their tux. The final choices for the guys was done in October and we're 38 days away from the wedding. The third brother already said don't expect his family to be there (recall, FMIL hates me and apparently so does said FBIL). I don't want to keep nagging FI but I'm wigging out now. If they wait around till the last possible day then say they're not coming, we're screwed. What would you do?