i am addressing my save the dates and want to check on a few titles / addressing and ask a few questions.
1. I want to address my married guests with the same last name using both first names (I HATE Mr. and Mrs. HisName - makes my skin crawl). Is the best way to do this “Mr. and Mrs. HisFirst and HerFirst TheirLast” or is there a better way?
2. For a married couple when the woman is a doctor and the man is not and they have the same last name...thinking “Mr. and Dr. HisFirst and HerFirst TheirLast”. Is this correct?
3. A widow who is bringing her SO (unmarried, and she still uses the last name of her late husband) I was thinking:
Mrs. HerFirst HerLast
Mr. HisFirst HisLast
is this correct or should I use Ms.?
Thank you etiquette experts!