I am just looking for some opinions on this topic. I realize that I may be over reacting, but I want to hear from some people who seem to know what they are talking about. This past weekend, my bridesmaids threw my bachelorette party. For the most part, it was amazing! However, I had one bridesmaid who seems to have a very bad attitude regarding the whole thing. She got married at the court house in July, due to immigration reasons. This in itself is absolutely fine and her choice. However, she then proceeded to throw a "reception" full of terrible etiquette. She didn't host a thing at her get together. It was at a bar where we had to pay for all our own drinks and dinner. Since this has happened, all she seems to be able to talk about is how no one got them gifts, and how people didn't seem to really care about it. Getting back to the bachelorette, the entire time she talked about her new life with her husband and how great everything was, but also continuously complained about how weddings are a waste of money and how no one cared that they got married. It felt like she was over compensating and stealing the spot light. I felt like I couldn't get a word in edge wise. If I did mention something about our wedding or anything about life at all, it felt like she was trying to one up me. I was pretty upset about her behavior at the party. My concern is that she will now turn the remainder of the pre-wedding events into her show as well. We are getting our nails done for the wedding, and I am also paying to have the bridesmaids hair and makeup done on the day of. Any suggestions of how I can handle the situation if this comes up again?