Family Is hinting at us to change our wedding date
So my fiance and I got engaged a month ago. Since the moment we did, we have been asked when is the date. Everyone knew we were going to do a destination wedding so they wanted to start preparing for it.
We found a beutiful all-inclusive resort that customizes weddings to my liking. My fiance and I came up with May 24, 2020 because it is Memorial Day weekend, and people would have that Monday off to be able to come and we could do the wedding on a Sunday so it is cheaper.
I began telling mine and my fiance's family. I get a text shortly after from my fiance's sister saying that weekend will be her husbands little brother's high school graduation weekend. My fiance's mom starts texting me asking me to change the day, because they would have to come down seperately and she was already freaking out.
I attempted to change it to the following day, May 25, 2020, but the hotel said my reception area was already booked for that day. I'm not sure what to do at this point. Should I try changing it to a different weekend to not make any family wedding drama, or should I keep it as is?
*My fiance's sister's husband's family is not even invited to the wedding they are not close with them. The sister also is really high strung and stresses about everything.