what do you call bridesmaids who literally do nothing? I have only one bridesmaid that seems to care. However….Did I have a bridal shower-nope. Did anyone go dress shopping with me- nope. Have any of them done any dyi stuff with me- Nope. Has anyone asked how I am doing 9 days before the wedding- nope. Anyone ask what I needed-nope. When I put the wedding timeline in the group chat, I asked them to confirm they saw it and if they had any questions- 4 still haven't even confirmed they saw it. Oh btw I have 8 bridesmaids. When I asked in the group chat if someone could get the food for the bridesmaids for the day of wedding-no one offered. When I asked if someone could be in charge of a mimosa bar-no one offered. Then I found out some of them don’t read the group chat! When I asked if people wanted to go with me to get our nails done- no one replied. Two are even missing our "pool party rehearsal dinner" because they are servers and make a good amount of money on Fridays. I worked at the same restaurant with them a year ago, I know people are always willing to trade shifts. No money would be lost. Originally my future husband and I wanted to say one favorite thing about each person of the wedding party at the wedding reception instead of family speeches. I can't stand up there and say anything when I am so hurt by all of them. I really just wanted to vent. On the plus side, I couldn’t done this without my fiancé. I think planning this wedding has made us closer. I’m just ready for it to be here.