So, the day of the wedding FI's dad's side of the family didn't show up. Like, we had reserved ten seats, and an ENTIRE TABLE for them and not a single person showed up. At first I was angry because that was two hundred dollars down the drain since none of them bothered to show, but now I just don't care because it is over and done with. However, it is still bugging my husband that his family didn't show up, didn't call to tell him that they wouldn't be there, and haven't even congratulated him.
I wrote a letter that I want to send to everyone, but I am afraid that they will take it the wrong way. Excuse my french but I just want them to act like they give a damn. He is the last male of the family that will carry on his last name, in a family that prides itself in its history and geneaology, yet nobody has even said congrats, even a month later.
I have had this letter for almost a month now and don't want to make the wrong decision. I don't want gifts, money, or anything like that, just to make sure that my husband knows that his family cares about him. What should I do?
And now we are as one
Married February 20, 2011