Ok I have a 2 part question. #1. My fiance and I have decided to do memorial candle lightings for our grandparents that have passed away and won't be here for our wedding. The issue is my paternal grandmother died when my dad was 6 aka I never knew her. Is it stupid to include a candle for her? All the other grandparents have been alive when we were born (some not that long, though, but I feel at least they knew us). #2. When we do the lightings should we just have a candle there or is it weird to include a framed picture (4x6) of them as well? We're definitely gonna display the candles/frames at the reception, but is this too much for the ceremony? Thanks Knotties!