Ok, so i have a lot of time to plan BUT
My family is from NY (all of them) his is ALL from California, We live in chicago
My family has sickly members and do not really have the funds to come out here. His, well he is just being a pain in the bum n said his family will not go for our ceremony/reception in NY. Either way his has to travel, and this way BOTH do (but mine really wont be able to and i have a veryyy large family) He said he would put money up for a van or something for transportation and help with the hotels. Still some sickly members of my family will not be able to come ie grandfather/great uncle/aunt
Is this a good idea? to have a van? another solution anyone?
I was thinking perhaps having the wedding here in chicago and ceremony (which will probably end up being most of his family.. and still have the van option.. but also doing a small party back in NY for my family? ah stressful
HELP SOLUTIONS PLEASE