I am disabled and have been with my partner for eight years. I was wondering if anyone else had come up with this situation or if there are any ideas for a solution....
We WANT to get married but if we do, by LAW I will lose my health benefits.
Should we have a ceremony and just not file the paperwork?
Get engaged and never married?
Basically, is there a way to get married without it being official? And is that wrong to decieve the people that we would have at our 'wedding' (or would it be more ethical to call it something else)???
ANYONE PLEASE post your thoughts on this. We are planning on doing SOMETHING September 2013 but we don't even know where to start because of this ordeal.
Thanks in advance,
Danielle