Okay, I'm going to start off this post with the fact that I realize my wedding is only about me and I shouldn't expect anything out of anyone and just be grateful that people want to share this day with us. That being said....My MOH moved to Hawaii shortly after I asked her to be in the wedding. Main reasons she was my MOH was that 1. she lived in Norman with me and no one else in the wedding did and 2. it is my brother's girlfriend and she is really my only female friend I saw on a regular basis (i'm horrible at keeping in touch with people). They have been together over 5 years and talk marriage all the time so the issue of "well what if they break up or something" never came up....until now. Brother just got back from a visit and I guess things are not good between them at all. He is talking about breaking up and he basically does not know their status. He says not to worry about it, but with us being 2 months out I'm kind of freaking out. Do I just let it be and wait and see what happens with the possibility of not having a MOH on my wedding day? I cant ask my other BM's their opinion on the matter because they both think I should have kicked her out of the wedding simply because she moved to Hawaii which is another story entirely. (they are family and jealous they weren't picked) I just don't know how to handle the situation. Do I talk to MOH about it or just hope they stay together and she shows up to the wedding? FI wants me to ask one of my other friends to be in the wedding because she is really the only one who has stepped up and done anything for me wedding wise (she has gone shopping with me, etc., and is throwing my shower because no one else was going to). If we do that we would offer to help her with her dress because its so close to the wedding. But is it too late to ask someone to be in your wedding two months away?Sorry if this didn't make any sense, I just don't know what to do. Any advice would be appreciated.