I'm about to do some serious baby whining - do forgive me.We got engaged last December. We originally talked about getting married in July - as in the one that just passed. Decided that wasn't going to fit in our schedules so talked about September. Decided we both needed time to settle into our new jobs (that were starting mid August) so September would be too stressful. He brought up December. Now he doesn't want to do it then either.I understand that neither July nor September were the right time for us. I understand that right now it is more important to be saving to buy a house than to be unloading tons of money on a wedding. But I didn't want to unload the money in the first place. I would be perfectly happy with just doing it at the court house. But he doesn't want to just do it at the court house, he wants to have family and friends for a few thousand dollar wedding. {I am impressed with the fact that I've been able to price things out to get us in around 3,000 given the average cost of an american wedding. And I would be happy to talk to our parents and figure out a way to get it all paid for. But he, who is the one who doesn't want to do it the cheap way, also doesn't want to spend the money it would take to do it the non cheap way.} I just don't get it.I'm beginning to think that I'm never going to get married...which would be fine with me...if he hadn't proposed...Sorry this got to be soooo long. It's good that I can come here and vent...thanks ladies.