So long story short, I've been waiting to get $25,000 that's supposed to be coming my way. However, I'm now not sure if I'm going to get it all at once or when I'm going to get it. I was going to use that money to pay for our wedding, which we wanted to have in March. I'm now 5 months away from the date we wanted to have it on. I can't continue to hope this money will come in time. It's too much stress and I want to be able to enjoy planning my wedding. Not-to-mention, my fiance's job has moved us to another state away from friends and family, which need a proper amount of time to prepare for travel.
My alternate plan is to just get married at a park with the officiant, my kids and a few witnesses. A very low key/cheap wedding. However, not being from Oklahoma I have no idea where the best parks are. I live in South Tulsa but other areas in Tulsa would be fine as well. Please help.