I have a very limited budget. My fiance and I are paying for our own wedding and we only make a combined $30,000 a year so I'm making most of the decorations and bouquets and what not. The wedding date is 11/01/14. I want a venue that can hold between 150 and 175 people, preferably one where they have an area to hold the ceremony as well. My family is big on liquor so open bar is a must (not just wine and beer) which really takes the price up a few notches. I'm looking for somewhere nice and roomy that is affordable in the south jersey area. We've been considering a cocktail style reception but I still want it to be nice. I'm looking to spend no more than $50 a person. $30 or $40 would be better though. I don't want to rent a hall and bring a caterer in. I want a venue where they make their own food on site. Any ideas?