For starters, I've been on the knot since first DD got married in 05, left when the "migration" occured last year and everything was messed up, to include my 8000 lost posts. Oh, wait, I'm whining about those again......
Anyway, I'm a military MOB. I've been on active duty for almost 25 years, have 3 married DD's, and I use to hang out here quite often back in the old days. Something happened amongst the military brides and a new board was started elsewhere and things went on from there.
I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you. Needless to say, I have a major soft spot for the military community and weddings, etc. so I thought I would consult you ladies with an issue in my family.
My husband's side of the family is not very military. College and what-not, but not very many have served at all. Major proud Americans who support the military, but not experienced. (You will come to learn I am a wordy person..)
So, I have a beautiful niece engaged to a young man in the Army. She is such a great young lady and I just love her to pieces. Wedding is set for November 18th, he is deploying again shortly there after.
Guess what happened? You can see it coming - his deployment has been moved forward quite a bit and my SIL and niece are at the venue right now to see what they can work out. I advised them about a military clause for that and the venue had no problems with that.
Deployment moved up means training moves up. I'm hoping they aren't choosing a date they think will work without knowing his training schedule. Man, this is long even for me.
So, I'm going to talk to them to see what they think about the kids getting married privately this year and reception when he gets home. With 25 years under my belt, seen it done many times.
Since my family is unfamiliar with this, I'm wondering what kind of comments any of you received about this if you were in this situation. I'd like to be the Auntie who can help quiet any ruffled feathers, etc.
For those of you who did this, were showers still held? Bach parties? Would love your feed back. Thanks!