I got countless gasps on the main etiquette board when I asked this question, so I thought this may be a little more understand group... Fiance is in flight school, so were stuck down here in Alabama away from all the family. Since I would really love to not have to PCS and deal with pre-mob AND do military ID, bank stuff, etc. can we do a courthouse thing and have an actual ceremony later on when our families (particularly his parents who are stationed in Italy) can be there?