this is so complicated, but i will try and make this question as simple as possible... my fiance is stationed at camp lejuene and i am moving out there before he deploys so that i can spend that time with him before he goes to afghanistan. after talking about it more we have been pondering the idea of us getting married and making it legal so that i can recieve separation pay while he is gone. if we get married in north carolina, and then proceed to try and get a marriage license in wisconsin as well, will they still give us one? a family friend is marrying us next year and we dont want him or anyone else to know about the wedding before the big day next year. any suggestions? i guess im wondering if i can get married in north carolina, receive a second license for everyone to sign in wisconsin next year and then just not file it, or if they will have record of our marriage in north carolina... pleeease someone help!!!