Hi all,
My finace and I have been engaged for a little over a year. He was coming up on 3 years in the USMC when he was admin sep'd because of being undeployable (medical issue that was resolved, but it didnt really make a difference). He was in the Reserves, so just attending drill once a month and that never interferred with setting a wedding date and planning a wedding.
Now he wants to enlist in the Army for a 3 year enlistment. This time he plans on being active duty. We had our date set at September 7, 2013. But I have been reading so many things on the internet about people who had leave for their wedding, and they still were not allowed to come home even though they had all the proper paperwork. We have a few things booked and lots of plans in motion.
My question: I feel like I am being stupid if I keep planning a wedding when we are not even guaranteed that he will be able to come home. We are not in a financial situation to waste $15,000 (not sure too many people are!). So what do I do? I am hoping you ladies might have some advice for me.
TIA