I'm trying to like my FBIL, I really am...but he makes it soooo hard. He's a Marine, but I don't hold that against him (lol, my Fi and I are both Army vets). We were talking about military life and he turned to me and said "You don't know what real military life is like because you're female. Why do they even allow women to join?" Excuse me? I busted my ass in the Army. What right has he to tell me that? Please...help me figure out a way to not kill him.