If you do it in secret, it will go very badly. It always does. Someone will find out and be very hurt or angry that you lied. Do you honestly want to lie to your family?The other ladies have given you great advice. Please consider it.
So my fiance and I want a big wedding, but he is in the Marine Corps. We are trying to figure out if we should get married after boot camp, tricky part though, it would be in secret. We would have our two closest friends as witnesses, at the court house with us. We would have the paperwork part done because thats all the Marine Corps cares about and then later in the summer when he is able to get leave we would have our official ceremony and everyone could come and be at our wedding. So the just is get married when he comes home from boot camp and tell no one and then when we were able to have the wedding we want, do it and invite everyone and let that day actually be the day we classify as our wedding day.......? What do you think? Bad idea, or makes sense and is worth doing? Thank you for the advice. Jessica Posted by jabigham