My FI is getting a week a leave to come home from Japan!! I couldn't be more excited!! but.. This will be the last time I get to spend with him till he comes home for the wedding in December. And My parents just decided that they want to fly ACROSS the country to come see him too. I understand that they want to see him, but I've been at my duty station for almost 6 months and they've never once offered to come see me. Not only that, but this is MY last week with him before the wedding. We're already spending 2 days with his parents, now 3 days with mine, that only leaves us 2 days with each other. Not to mention the jet lag he's going to have, I just hate taking my leave days, and then coming back to work more stressed and tired than I was when I left!! The last tim e he was home, the only alone time we got was the 3 hours at the airport before our flights, and those were not happy times!! Am I being selfish?!