Ok, just a quick vent here about planning the bachelor party. So we're having a destination wedding in florida next year. I will be planning most of it myself since my fiance will be on a west pac tour. He gets back a few months before the wedding. His brother is all concerned about when the bachelor party will be here because my fiance doesn't live up North anymore, and I asked that they don't do it the week of the wedding while in florida. Mainly because I feel that my fiance should be with me entertaining the family that comes down and getting a marriage license with me etc. Also, due to logistics, my dad wants to help me move down south a week before the wedding as well (i know alot, but that I can handle). So i suggested just doing it back up North, my fiance can come up one weekend, and they people that care will make every attempt to make it no matter what.My other reasoning is that he would make it harder for his long time friends from high school to make it to florida as they might not be able to get time off (not all of them have jobs that offer PTO or anything). My question is, am I being too unreasonable by asking that it's not the week or few days before the wedding. Sorry, but I am venting about this, because at times I feel like a b*tch about it, and then other times I think what I'm asking is not unreasonable. \