I just got engaged in February, and currently our wedding date June 18, 2011. This would be fine, but we found out that we would get alot more financial aid if we were married and could apply for financial aid as independents for next year (school year of 2011) which we couldn't do if we waited to get married until june. My fiance is also in the air force reserves and he gets more money for having a dependent and they would pay for our housing expenses.So, the thought process was to have a small family only wedding in december and then have a reception on June 18.This would also save my parents money since my fiance and I could pay for the december wedding ourselves and wouldn't need to ask my parents for money.However, my mom is opposed to it since it isn't a 'traditional' wedding and my relatives from another state probably wouldn't be able to make it to the actual wedding.So, is there any advice to be given?
P.S. He's reserve so deployment isn't a likely possibilty