So the past few months FI has been so down. We came up to AK in September and when we arrived his squadron was deployed and they didn't come back until December. Another guy showed up a week before FI and he deployed to be with the squadron and apparently the guy was and idiot so they decided not to send anymore new guys over. FI wants to deploy SO bad. Prior to coming to Alaska he was in flight school in AL and upon leaving flight school a few of his closest friends deployed. He wants to deploy because he wants to do his job and also he fears that it will basically be the "end" of his career unless he deploys within the next year. He's an LT and when finished here in AK he will be going to Cpt's course. I asked him if there's anyone he can talk to or anything he can do to get deployed and he's talked to the Cpt and to the SCO and there's a very small chance that he will be able to deploy before then.
Does anyone have any advice, or has anyone been through this?
Obviously, I don't want him to go anywhere, but deploying is important to him and I wish I could make it happen for him.
I know there's not really anything I can do. I just hate seeing him down!!