I was on another board (in Moms and Maids) and was venting about how my sister and sister in law are not doing what i would think they were supposed to do. All i meant by it was that I wish they were a bigger part of my wedding and not complaining about things like buying the dress. Another bride told me that I need to reevaluate what's important, after she broke up my post by sentence group and replied to each. I just felt like since my fiance is away and has been away for a few months at A school, that I would be able to count on my sisters. It was frustrating for them to complain and not want to get their dress when all I want to do is celebrate this time with them. Is it bad that I want my bridesmaids to be involved in my wedding? i chose them because I thought I'd be able to count on them. Now I'm upset about that and these boards. I feel so distraught like I never want to post on them again. But now I can't get out of my head what she said to me. Has that ever happened to you? I just wanted a place to vent. And I guess my words didn't come out how I wanted them to. =/