My husband and I are currently stationed in Hawaii...we LOVE it. It has become a really special place to us where we are super relaxed and have never been happier. We had a courthouse ceremony and our families still really want us to have another larger ceramony and reception.
We would love to have it here in hawaii because it means so much to us but most of our family and friends are in california and virginia. Is it rude to ask them to come to where we live for the wedding? I can't imagine planning a wedding in Virginia from Hawaii...I'd have no idea what I was getting since I'm not there.
We obviously don'ot expect that everyone will be able to come, but are pretty confident family and some close friends would make it. Just wanted to get some opinions...I don't want people to get the invitations and think we're rude for asking.