I'm doing a big DIY wedding on a small budget with not a lot of help.... so I'm thinking of foregoing the program. I hand made our invitations, and they don't match the save the dates we sent out, so it's not like I have extra paper laying around to do programs. Is it a big deal if I don't have them? Or is there something else I can do instead? My parents are VERY traditional. I feel like they wouldn't like this idea...