My finance and I are having trouble deciding who to ask to officiate our wedding. I want the preacher of the church I grew up in and who is really close to our family to officiate. My fiance wants a pastor he grew up with and who is close to his family to officiate.
We've ruled out our current pastors because we're not very close to them and family members because we don't want anyone to get their feelings hurt for not being asked or to feel like they're working on our special day.
I've ran a few ideas by my fiance about having each pastor do different parts of the ceremony, and he pretty much hates the idea. Does anyone have ANY ideas about how to resolve this issue so that chossing an officiant doesn't turn into a fight?